After the morning talk with my wife I saw my children in a different light. I suddenly understood they were only guests in our family and in 8 or 9 years my elder son as well as the youngest one a little bit later would fly away. They will have their friends and wives, they’ll have their bad and good lucks, they’ll have completely different and independent life.
Looking at different situation from 10 year distance you understand what’s really important in your life, you understand that this moment is unique, it’ll never happen again, you can enjoy it or paint it in other colors. It’s up to you.
Dmitriy